SELF – CONCEPT IS DESTINY 39223 092109

SHREE SATYANARAYAN SWAMI

*03.1- SELF-CONSEPT IS DESTINY .IT HAS A HUGE IMPACT ON OUR REALITY .IT CAN INFLUENCE US POSITIVELY,BUT IT CAN ALSO HURT US

*03.2- THAT IS WHY IT IS SO IMPORTANT TO HAVE A POSITIVE SELF -CONCEPT AND A POSITIVE INNER DIALOGUE .EVERY DAY ,YOU HAVE CHOICE BETWEEN TELLING YOURSELF ” I AM INTELLIGENT” “A AM A NICE PERSON ” OR ‘I AM WORTHLESS,” ” I DO NOT DESERVE THIS” “I AM SO STUPID’

*03.3- YOUR SELF -CONCEPT OFTEN COMES FROM WHAT YOU WERE TOLD BY YOUR ENVIRONMENT AS A CHILD ,BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO TAKE IT FOR GRANTED AND THAT YOU CAN NOT CHANGE IT

*03.4- IT HAS HUGE IMPACT ON EVERYTHING YOU DO,HOW YOU DO IT ,AND HOW YOU EXPERIENCE LIFE AS A WHOLE .SO, IF YOU DO NOT LIKE WHAT YPOU ARE SEEING START CHANGING IT BY INTRODUCING NEW MESSAGES INTO YOUR LIFE .THESE NEW BENEFICIAL MESSAGES WILL REPLACE THE OLD ONES OVER TIME

*03.5- USE POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS OR SUBLIMINAL MESSAGES AND FOLLOW UP WITH BEHAVIER, FOR EXAMPLE ,SMILING IN FRONT OF A MIRROR FOR 30 SECOND EVERY DAY ,OR BEHAVING LIKE A PERSON WITH A HEALTHY SELF – PERCEPTION

*03.6- YOU START THINKING OF YOURSELF “I AM COPING. I MUST BE A SELF-CONFIDENT PERSON” AND THEN IT BECOMES A SELF-FULFILLING PROPHECY, AND BECOME MORE SELF- CONFIDENT

*03.7- ONCE YOU REALIZE THAT YOU ARE CAPABLE OF MANY THINGS YOU START TELLING YOURSELF “I CAN DEAL WITH THIS .I CAN HANDLE IT. I AM ACTUALLY MORE RESILIENT THAN I THOUGHT I WAS ” YOUR HAPPINESS INCREASES,AND FINALLY ,SUCCESS COMES.